Emergency mental health support
Samaritans
free 24/7 helpline: 116 123
email jo@samaritans.org
Shout
free 24/7 text service: text ‘SHOUT’ or ‘DEAF’ (if you are D/deaf and want the person responding to know) to 85258
Useful links and apps
Take a virtual nature walk on the 4K Relaxation Channel on Youtube.
Identify what emotion you’re feeling with the interactive emotion wheel at All The Feelz.
Track your mood and get mental health support with these apps that use a cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) framework. Bear in mind that CBT isn’t the right approach for everyone.
My Possible Self (free) - includes in-the-moment grounding techniques, written exercises to examine your thoughts and feelings, and guidance on overcoming specific mental health challenges.
Youper (freemium) - includes an AI chatbot to help you work through thoughts and feelings.
Learn about and practice mindfulness and meditation with:
Calm (freemium) – audio and video meditation, sleep and relaxation.
Headspace (freemium) – audio and video mindfulness and meditation.
Deaf Mindfulness (free) – BSL and some subtitled videos on mindfulness from a therapist.
Mind provides information and support on mental health and illness, looking after yourself and others, ways to connect to peer support, and much more.
local rate Infoline available 9am-6pm: 0300 123 3393
email info@mind.org.uk
If you feel you need support from a professional:
Speak to your GP in the first instance; they should be able to help you access medication and therapy.
The NHS tends to focus on short-term CBT and waiting lists can be quite long. If you have the money and you feel you need a different style of therapy or something longer, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy has a directory of qualified therapists and counsellors which is searchable by the specific issue you’re facing (e.g. depression, ADHD, bereavement) and your postcode. Fees are visible at-a-glance and some therapists offer concessionary rates if you’re on a low income. All therapists should offer a free or low-cost consultation to help you work out if their approach is right for you.
You may find it helpful (as I did!) to look for a local therapy or counselling centre with therapists who work in a variety of styles. Be sure to check that they are BACP-registered using this link. The therapist who does your initial consultation can use their expertise to help you narrow down what style of therapy would be helpful for you. Again, many of these centres offer concessionary rates to people on low incomes.
Stressful waiting references
Where I talk about research in the workshop, I provide a citation at the bottom of the slide. If you’d like to read this research for yourself, there’s a full list of references below. Some of the research has been published behind a paywall (marked with a *). The rest should be freely available at the link provided.
Creswell, J. D. (2017). Mindfulness interventions. Annual Review of Psychology, 68, 491-516.
Dooley, M. K., Wilkinson, D., & Sweeny, K. (2019). Social support during stressful waiting periods: An inductive analysis. Qualitative Psychology, 7(3), 228-244. (link downloads PDF)
Ehret, S., Trukenbrod, A. K., Gralla, V., & Thomaschke, R. (2020). A grounded theory on the relation of time awareness and perceived valence. Timing & Time Perception, 8(3-4), 316-340. (link downloads PDF)
Knapp, S., Wilson, M., & Sweeny, K. (2021). The role of two emotion regulation tendencies across two waiting periods. Motivation and Emotion, 45(2), 211-220. (link downloads PDF)
Howell, J. L., & Sweeny, K. (2016). Is waiting bad for subjective health? Journal of Behavioral Medicine, 39(4), 652-664. (link downloads PDF)
Howell, J. L., & Sweeny, K. (2019). Fulfilling psychological needs predicts less sleep disruption and worry while awaiting uncertain news. Stress and Health, 35(3), 277-288. (link downloads PDF)
Knapp, S., Wilson, M., & Sweeny, K. (2021). The role of two emotion regulation tendencies across two waiting periods. Motivation and Emotion, 45(2), 211-220. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., & Sweeny, K. (2021). Preparing silver linings for a cloudy day: The consequences of preemptive benefit finding. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 01461672211037863. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., Andrews, S. E., & Sweeny, K. (2019). Awe-full uncertainty: Easing discomfort during waiting periods. Te Journal of Positive Psychology, 15(3), 338-347. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., & Sweeny, K. (2019). Divided we stand, united we worry: Predictors of worry in anticipation of a political election. Motivation and Emotion, 43(6), 956-970. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., & Sweeny, K. (2021). Preparing silver linings for a cloudy day: The consequences of preemptive benefit finding. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 01461672211037863. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., Sweeny, K., & Xu, S. (2019). Associations between subjective time perception and well‐being during stressful waiting periods. Stress and Health, 35(4), 549-559. (link downloads PDF)
Rankin, K., Walsh, L. C., & Sweeny, K. (2019). A better distraction: Exploring the benefits of flow during uncertain waiting periods. Emotion, 19(5), 818-828. (link downloads PDF)
Ryan, R. M., & Deci, E. L. (2000). Self-determination theory and the facilitation of intrinsic motivation, social development, and well-being. American Psychologist, 55(1), 68-78. (link downloads PDF)
Sweeny, K. (2018). On the experience of awaiting uncertain news. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 27(4), 281-285. (link downloads PDF)
Sweeny, K., & Andrews, S. E. (2014). Mapping individual differences in the experience of a waiting period. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 106(6), 1015-1030. (link downloads PDF)
Sweeny, K., Kwan, V., & Falkenstein, A. (2019). the role of gender in worry and efforts to cope during stressful waiting periods. Sex Roles, 81(11), 765-778. (link downloads PDF)
Sweeny, K., Reynolds, C. A., Falkenstein, A., Andrews, S. E., & Dooley, M. D. (2016). Two definitions of waiting well. Emotion, 16(1), 129-143. (link downloads PDF)
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